So how are all my Boys doing?
I recently came across a Billy Crystal quote… "Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place!"… and after giggling like a girl, I was musing to myself about how true or untrue this is. In truth most women do need a reason. Emotionless, ABC, mechanical, one-night-stand sex is sooo '2000 and late'. There really is something to be said for great connection with the other person before play and penetration. Intensity is the name of the game, it is the difference between a 'blow your socks off' orgasm and just a run of the mill 'could have done that myself' orgasm.
Oh and Boys, the more we practice the more orgasms we have (more on that next time!) In this new decade let's work on the connection, put away our stereotypes - because the truth is that we all need a reason and a place - burn the scented candles, use the nice sheets, use the condoms & toys - look deeply into her eyes - and go for the intensity… Don't save it for a special occasion or wait for a reason. Today is the reason!