The more we practice…
As I’m sure you’ve noticed by now, us girls are wired rather differently to you boys. Us girls have many more toys to play with, however they are a lot more subtle! So here is the low down; guys generally have a very specific way of masturbating and/or reaching orgasm that was developed fairly early on in life, and which varies little from episode to episode. It’s fast, it’s efficient and it works - when masturbating, women are generally the same, the problem is that penetration does not normally allow a woman to orgasm. Clitoral and G-spot stimulation does though! This means that most women are able to orgasm while masturbating, but battle to orgasm during penetrative sex.
The answer is simple, to bring your woman to multiple orgasms, you need to play and play and play - the longer the better. If you want to try and get her to orgasm in another ways, try varying the kinds of stimulation you use. Start with the vibrator, then switch to using your hand, your partner’s hand, a less-powerful vibe, or a lower setting on the regular toy as she gets closer to orgasm. Mix it up a bit, alternating the different kinds of touch as you get her more aroused. Initially, you might need to switch back to the “thing” that works best for her in order to get her to orgasm, but as time goes on you should find that she becomes more responsive to different kinds of stimulation. Another way is to ask her to show you what works best for her and then do exactly what she did!
Mwa!
